Never let anger or defensiveness get in the way of understanding.
Withhold moral judgment until I have a clue.
Refuse to indulge in envy of people who achieve success.
Make a new friend.
Visit my old friends more.
Learn new things; find new fields in which to learn things I never knew existed.
Visit a city I've never been to, and a National Park I've never been to.
Keep listening to new music, and find a new musician or composer to love.
Read books by ten authors completely new to me.
Finish the first draft of a new novel.
Either place the my current novel with a publisher or self-publish it on Amazon like the last one.