Monday, December 22, 2025

Freddie deBoer against Identifying with your Disability

Cranky leftist Freddie deBoer has had enough of identitarian liberalism. From a piece titled The New York Times Attempts to Bully Elderly People Into the Disability-as-an-Identity Worldview:

I’m not joking! Paula Span has produced this particular bit of scolding for The Official Publication of Liberals Who Occasionally Look Up From Their Crosswords to Disapprove of Everyone and Everything. Span writes

Identifying as a person with a disability provides other benefits, advocates say. It can mean avoiding isolation and “being part of a community of people who are good problem-solvers, who figure things out and work in partnership to do things better”

Of course, you can enjoy those benefits without identifying as disabled, without allowing one unfortunate aspect of your life become an entire identity. But that doesn’t fly in the world of the brownstone liberals who fund and run the New York Times, who seem to believe that there is no such thing as a person, only beings that exist to function as sets of interlocking identities.

Here’s the maddening thing about this piece: it quietly smuggles in a worldview that has metastasized across the discourse, a worldview in which the biggest problem facing disabled people is that they aren’t eager enough to call themselves disabled. Not, you know, being blind or paralyzed or suffering from dementia or constantly wracked with chronic pain, no, all of that is subservient to the only question anybody seems to care about anymore, the all-devouring question of identity. The whole thing hums along with the cheery institutional conviction that the answer to every human frailty is more identitarian self-labeling. . . .

What’s infuriating is that the disability-as-identity movement now demands not only recognition but participation. It doesn’t merely want a world that accommodates impairments; it wants people to embrace their impairments as the core of who they are, to reorganize their sense of self around deficit, to declare disability a positive good rather than an unfortunate reality that any reasonable society would want to minimize. So we get this bizarre spectacle in which experts scold older adults for not calling themselves disabled, as though the great social failing is insufficient uptake of a label. When you tell people that disability is a proud identity, that it confers membership in a community, that it’s a site of resistance and empowerment, you create a perverse incentive structure: you reward pathology and make recovery, adaptation, or improvement look like betrayal. You create cultures where people compete for diagnostic prestige and moral authority through the performance of malady. You make suffering existentially sticky. The NYT wants you to believe the problem is that older Americans “don’t want to look disabled.” Is that really the problem for that 84-year-old in chronic pain who can barely walk? I think her problem is that she’s in chronic pain and can barely walk, and “identifying as disabled” won’t make the slightest fucking difference in her life. Meanwhile, our problem is that we’ve built an intellectual ecosystem in which more and more people want exactly that, a label, because being disabled has been reframed as a kind of sacred political laurel. . . .

Because behind all of the airy rhetoric about community and identity is a simple material reality: disability is bad. Disability is physically bad, emotionally bad, financially bad. It reduces freedom. It causes pain. It limits horizons. That doesn’t mean people who are disabled are lesser or that their lives lack dignity or value, obviously. It means that which afflicts them actually afflicts them. My controversial, offensive belief is that disability disables! But the new orthodoxy insists that saying so is taboo. The Times piece rattles through endless quotes about how older people need to feel empowered to call themselves disabled, yet never once confronts the obvious possibility that they don’t want to because they don’t want their lives defined by deficit. They want to soldier on, insist they’re that fine, preserve some continuity of self. Is that denial? Sometimes, sure. More often, I suspect, it’s a vestige of self-respect, a refusal to surrender one’s entire identity to the slow attrition of age and disease.

Recall that deBoer has suffered all his life from serious mental illness, but so far as I know has never once publicly used that as an excuse. He has certainly never tried to build his identity around it; on the contrary he has striven for a rational consistency in his positions. He spent years decrying the way wokeness was dividing the left and forcing people into extreme positions, thereby weakening the whole movement. Like everyone else who has ever thought about the problem, he understands that if people on the left want to move America in their direction, they must act together, as citizens.

3 comments:

G. Verloren said...

As someone who instinctively shies away from labels and embracing standardized identities, I consider this "problem" to be beneath my concern.

Do I find it annoying when someone wants my "participation" in their particular pet form of identity politics? Absolutely. But in what way does it MATTER? I politely decline to participate, and get on with life. And in no way does it ever make me feel concerned, or threatened, or even... affected. It could scarcely be less relevant to my life.

And let's not forget, identity politics exist across the entire political spectrum. I only ever seem to find people railing about it online in terms of liberals doing it, but uh... yeah... conservative demands for participation in their own brand of identity politics are even more prevalent, and even more extreme.

I simply don't give a damn if some obnoxious liberals want to take stupid stances on things like how people should identify, because their opinions don't matter, and their are no meaningful consequences for not going along with their nonsense. We're not talking about lawmakers or politicians or people who make decisions that affect the lives of others.

At worst we're talking about private businesses (in the case mentioned, The New York Times), and the most nefarious deeds they are carrying out are... saying arguably stupid things in public, and potentially swaying some portion of the public to agree with them? Oooh, so scary! Opinion pieces in newspapers and online columns! Clutch those pearls tighter, folks!

And most of the time, it's not even that - it's usually just fringe weirdos with no real power or influence over anything expressing their opinions ineffectually. What ever will we do - ignore them? Agree to disagree? The horror!

Meanwhile, on The Right, we have the sitting president of America actively gutting our national institutions over identity politics, and the entire Republican bloc of Congress falling into lockstep behind him out of fear, sycophancy, or sheer bloody-minded idiocy, and we all collectively just sort of hope it'll eventually come to an end... and in the meantime, we blame The Left for "not preventing this", etc, because Murc's Law is apparently eternal.

G. Verloren said...

Also, who the hell is Freddie deBoer, and why should I or anyone else care what he thinks?

I'm annoyed by "identitarian liberals"... but I'm actively disgusted by the bizarre prevalence of all these middle aged, white, male "liberal commentators" and "cultural critics" who all seem to have built entire careers out of just bloviating ad nauseam about how much their own half of the political spectrum annoys them, and making mountains out of their pet molehills, and generally "farming engagement" by churning out "content", and literally doing nothing else of any value to themselves, their political comrades, or society at large. They're paid whiners, and apparently business is good for them.

I sometimes frame it as the "Ezra Kleining" of liberal discourse - academically inclined liberal white men, endlessly getting lost in naval gazing and useless conjecture, and never actually... doing anything, or accomplishing anything, or contributing anything of substance. Heck, they don't even do a very good job of summing things up, or clarifying other people's comments or contexts.

It feels like liberal political discourse has become akin to Siskel and Ebert - there's not really anything of actual substance or importance being discussed, but the guys doing it have a knack for witticism and pseudo-intellectual bickering that makes them bizarrely popular and influential, despite the fact that they frequently miss the mark and are deeply out of touch with either reality at large or ordinary people.

David said...

I must say, there is something bilious and simply mean in trying to deny others something that can be reasonably described as "avoiding isolation and being part of a community of people who are good problem-solvers, who figure things out and work in partnership to do things better." As for "if people on the left want to move America in their direction, they must act together, as citizens"--yes, of course, but what real contradiction is there between people forming their own groups and acting together as citizens? Forming groups and sub-groups is what people do. Yes, there are extremists who can be annoying--the sort who insist their own identity is incomprehensible to any other, for example--but I think these sorts can be and are best ignored.

Then again, bilious and mean is the Freddie deBoer mode. Given your dislike of complainers and dividers, John, why do you afford him an echo for his divisive whining?